I loved visiting Lasma today. I caught a collective taxi in
Medan to go to Pangururan and thought, en route, that if I got out in Siantar
and went to her village it would be possible to squeeze in a small visit. I
could then catch the ferry to Samosir in Tiga Ras rather than Parapat. I called and she
seemed to like the idea, so I had my driver drop me off at the corner where the
Bus Cepat (Fast Bus – name only, didn’t mean much) picked up passengers for the
more northerly regions of Simalungun and off I went.
Besides taking me to Lasma, the Fast Bus quickly brought me
down memory lane. In my mind I was back thirty years to my first visits when I
didn’t have enough money for more than public transportation. I loved the smell
of the sirih being chewed by the old woman next to me and the fresh faces of
the school girls that clambered on and off at the different stops. I loved
listening to the Batak language and the rough and ready style of the “bus boys”
and driver. As always, the bus was a total mess and hung together more or less
with wire and tape. When we got to Tiga Runggu, I saw Lasma waiting for me.
(She had ordered a becak.) They pulled my heavy red suitcase from the top of
the bus (I hoped it was water tight because it had rained heavily on the way) and
Las and I hauled it over to the becak-for-three. Las sat in front facing me,
and I sat beside a woman who was returning from the market. Lasma showed me her
old high school as we rode by and later her grade school as we approached her
house. She used to take a becak to and from school, she said. The air was fresh
and cool. I loved travelling down the road with my daughter, the wind in our
hair.
As we approached her house, Lasma told me that the narrow,
tarmac’d road used to only be a buffalo path. When it rained, she would whip
off her shoes and walk to school in her bare feet and then wash them off when
she got to school and pull on her shoes again. Otherwise the shoes would be
ruined. We laughed.
At her home everybody was waiting for us. Some people were
lolling outside. Her father’s eyes were bright and happy.
Lasma's handsome dad |
Her grandmother was
there (mother’s mother)
Lasma's grandmother. |
and her mom,
Lasma's Mom. |
uncle, grandmother’s youngest daughter, Lasma’s
younger siblings, the neighbour,
A neighbour sat beside the door. |
her older sister’s child --- to whom Lasma had
given the name Van Zuylen after our trip to Java when she learned the story about
Eliza van Zuylen! Lasma’s smile was huge.
Lasma's smile was huge. Here she is sitting with her family in the front room of heir house. |
Somebody unfurled a mat for us to sit on and there we sat beside
Lasma’s loom! I couldn’t believe my eyes – it was so real!
Here is the rest of the family. A part of Lasma's loom is just barely visible to the right behind her grandmother. |
I went over to look at the textile and once again I was impressed by the quality of Lasma’s work, so regular, the edges so straight. Tidy and disciplined. She had been working for two days and the textile was half done. It had pretty stripes. Lasma promised me a photograph of it (I had already packed up my camera as my visit had to be very short if I was to catch the ferry). In the becak on the way to her home Lasma had also told me that her grandmother had a lot of unused yarn. It was literally rotting away in a box. Lasma salvaged what she could of it, and washed and dried the portions that were worth keeping. She will starch it and try to use it in more of her first weaving attempts. I hope that the yarn is good enough and will not be a waste of her time and effort when she weaves.
A glass of water emerged from the kitchen for me, and then a
plate of eggs. Then a bag of oranges. They knew that my diet was restricted
because I am vegetarian. And Lasma remembered that I always tell her to eat
oranges so that she gets enough vitamins. They told me to take the oranges
because they would give me vitamins! They also made me take the whole plate of
eggs so that I could share them with the team in Pangururan. Fortunately I had
purchased several bags of kripik (for the team) at a taxi stop earlier in the
day and was able to give them to Lasma’s Mom.
Her family invited me to come and eat with them and to sleep
at their home whenever I wished. I was touched and delighted, felt like
staying. But I had promised to meet the team in Pangururan and Ombang Siboro’s
staff were waiting for me so I knew I must not even risk missing the boat literally
and figuratively. Lasma had operated with foresight (she would be an excellent
manager) and ordered a new becak. This one was the biggest I had ever seen with
three rows of seating. The red motorcycle attached to it was gleaming and new.
Lasma’s younger sister, Cina, came with us (so Lasma would have company on the
way home) and sat in the front with my red suitcase. Las and I sat in the back
seats and talked about our future together. We are constructing some good plans
and both of us are excited.
Despite the ruts and lumps in the road and the fuel stop
that we had to make, we got to the harbour before the boat left. It felt like
home, so similar to our Pulang Kampung III craft. Las and I waved goodbye to
each other endlessly and then I sat down, ate another egg and made the crossing
with a smile.
Lasma will join us in Pangururan as soon as she can. She has
some tasks that she has to perform at the University first. Then, next week, she
will be free to join us in Muara where I have planned a meeting with Restuala’s
weavers. We need to learn about their needs. It will be good for Lasma to be
present for the discussion. And it will be good for me to have her there.