Febrina (left) and Lasma (right) meeting again for the first time since the Pulang Kampung III expedition. They are filled with joy. |
It was fun to be with Mikro and Mini during the
Weaving Workshop. They are sweet girls, fun, and independent of spirit while also
being dutiful, faithful and respectful. Neither of them has it easy. They are
bound by strong ties of love and responsibility to their respective Moms.
Lasma's mom is a former weaver. She made this traditional Simalungun headcloth -- every part of it, including the twined edging. |
Febrina was in her city 'kampung' already to go when we pulled up. |
Until now, their sense of their options has been very limited.
I have given a tremendous amount of thought to Lasma and
Febrina’s situations and we had the opportunity to talk about it at length with
each other. I continually asked them what they perceived their needs and goals to
be for a good future. Realistically.
I wanted their time at the workshop to be meaningful on multiple
levels. On one hand, I wanted the girls to have a happy, carefree time,
experience a vacation and a bit of relaxation. If nothing else, I hoped that
they will at least gain happy memories to bask in.
On the way to the workshop we stopped on the side of the road to purchase and savour some durian fruits. |
On the other hand, I wanted them to have experiences on
which they could build their future. Even if they can’t ever join the
mainstream world of gaining an education and 'getting a job', I encouraged
them to see alternatives. I tried to expose them to choices that other people
have made and to the wealth of their own cultural heritage.
In this regard, I sent Lasma information about design
possibilities for the (resist-dyed) Batu Jala textile long before my arrival.
She has become excited by these options.
Lasma dyed her first textile during the Weaver Workshop. |
I sent Febrina information about the
little bags that the Batak used to make centuries ago using the twining
technique.
Febrina examines the twined bag illustrated in Legacy in cloth. |
Febrina started to play with techniques that she remembered learning as a child. |
We talked at length about techniques for reconstructing the bag. Are
there similarities with basketry? We looked for baskets to examine
construction techniques and talked about who could help with this technical/design
challenge. I talked with both about potential markets and promised them I
would use my own network to market their products. We googled together and
explored pages on facebook. They now both have computers and through these
pieces of technology they have access to endless sources of inspiration.
They now both have similar computers. |
I try to build their sense of personal capacity to make choices
and achieve goals. We laughed a lot about the Pulang Kampung III
expedition and noted that they appeared in media across Indonesia as a result of
it. The point is: we had few resources besides a will to execute the project,
and yet we succeeded. I exhorted them to never forget this feather in their caps and
to use it as a platform for realizing their dreams.
I love this picture of the 'twins'. Febrina is examining a textile, but it is Lesma reflected in the mirror. |
When we parted this time around, I invited them to think
about what we had done together. We have visited people and places, seen
experiments and heard about dreams. Their network has broadened. They have each
other to talk about ideas and to reflect on the experiences they have had. We
have talked about dreams and possibilities. They have computers now and access
to internet and thus the whole world. They have learned more about weaving and
twining and their creative juices are flowing.
Lasma learned to wind the warp of a textile from Ompu Ruth. |
Lasma trying her hand at warping a textile. |
They have a ready-made market
(in me and my friends) if they choose to explore this avenue further. I told
them that I didn’t know when I will be in North Sumatra again but they have the
tools to go forward on their own. I wished them luck and promised them my
on-going support but said that further initiative must come from them. I
promised to help them with further education if that was their choice.
Lasma showed us a bag that she had made to salvage an old textile partly nibbled on by mice. |
Febrina wrote an interesting status on her Facebook page
this week, something about it being time to get cracking. I wish her and Lasma
Godspeed.
Febrina and Lasma with seeds of the indigo plant. |
A lovely blog on Febrina and Lasma! I wish them every success on whatever pathway they choose. Perhaps most important is to wish them strength, courage and growing confidence as they start on their journey. With hindsight it is easy to see what should be done but it is most definitely not so as the first tentative footsteps are taken! I remember well my own haltering footsteps as I tried to find my own pathway. Good Luck!
ReplyDeleteDear Pamela, you are so right! Those first tentative steps are the hardest. They may look simple but they are the result of so much thought about self, the future, capacities. Thank you for your kind wishes for them.
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